Not Now, Dear… Is Becoming a Play
The book is starting to tap its feet toward the stage. An early, honest note on a play in development — hoped for 2027, still being written, and a long way from opening night.
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Tristan's Paradox: On the Inversion of Self-Knowledge and Other-Knowledge Across the Human Life Course
A short working paper drawn from Not Now Dear: in youth we seem to understand the opposite sex better than we understand ourselves — and in maturity the two quietly swap places. Now archived with a citable DOI.
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Writing Between the Engineering
What building things taught me about building a novel — and why an engineer's habits turned out to be a storyteller's secret weapon.
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The Art of the 'Not Now'
Two small words that can quietly reshape a life. On boundaries, guilt, and the difference between selfish and self-possessed.
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A first note on why this journal exists, and what you can expect to find here between the covers of the book.
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